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Bed secret that change my sex life!
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Majority of us living are carriers of
various diseases; infections and worst of
all burdens. We fail to share our
problems with people around us because
of the general ego we (humans) exhibit.
Sometimes, it might not be the ego but
the fear of been stigmatized.
One thing I have come to realize is that humans
irrespective of our race or sex have one problem
or the other but never get solution because we
conceal these pains to ourselves alone.
I have suffered a lot in the past because of my
ignorance and shy personality but I have taken
this bold step to share my experience with you
all readers so as to save some millions of souls
out there who is suffering from this condition I
was battled with even though I was presented
with a saving grace
(www.uniquefitnessoptions.com) but I was by
then still blind to the truth.
I am 36 years old married with a year old
daughter. I know many would say not bad now
nor too old an age for an African man, but truth
be told it was an underachievement in terms of
child rising for me considering the standard I
had set for myself initially. I came from a well to
do home and was very lucky to gain admission
into university at the age of seventeen were I
studied history and international studies. While I
was in 200 level, few months to my 19thbirthday
I was still a virgin but felt ashamed of my status
because of what older boys would say about
having fun with their lovers on campus. Since I
had no girl friend of my own I picked up some
shameful practice which was masturbation. I
soon got addicted and never felt the urge for
having a girl-friend anymore, hence I was a very
shy person who cannot confidently walk up to a
lady and ask her out.
As an addict, I would seek for any opportunity to
induce ejaculation which would mean making
use of any available opportunity either in the
room alone, toilet, bathrooms, and sometimes in
the sitting room while watching adult movies.
The exercise was never a total success in many
occasions as I soon got nervous whenever I hear
voices or footsteps approaching I tend to
hasting up the ejaculation so I can gain the
needed pleasure before the intrusion of the third
party. Often times the duration of these practice
is 2 minutes and few seconds at max.
Gradually, it became a habit an even without any
interference I could no longer hold up for more
than two minutes before ejaculating. It got me
so worried because I could have my peers
bragging of lasting for more than 20 – 30
minutes during sexual intercourse I knew quite
well that some might be exaggerating but not
withstanding I could not help that feeling of
been weak or inferior among them so I never
told anyone about my condition.
I had my very first girl friend at the dinner party
organized for us the final year students. I was
20 years plus then while she was 22. My mature
look and lanky stature helped me overcome the
age gap between us. She told me that she was
a virgin,so, we never needed to have sex which
was very ok by me. We had our marriage
immediately after our service year since my
parents agreed to sponsor it.
The marriage exposed my deficiency I did not
have an enjoyable honeymoon. I tried hard but
could never get my spouse to orgasm. She
agreed to endure with me and we began to seek
for solution. I tried so many local herbs but it
never worked all I achieved was quick erection
but not lasting sex life. I was shy to open up to
my family doctors. I stayed long on the internet
but never came across this life changer
So I began to try other means I could remember
then how some would say they use drugs to
enhance this so I self medicated on
clomipramine,dapoxetine and sildenafil. These
drugs were not so easy to get without doctor’s
prescription so I would buy a handful doze of
‘’TM’’. I soon abused these “SSRIs”. I must be
honest this almost ruined my life completely as
it made me hyper active. On most occasions my
wife got tired of my condition and deserted me. I
eventually had a diminishedlibido as an effect of
over reliant on the drugs.
I had no choice now but to open up since my
condition has worsen, I did not tell our family
doctor since I don’t want my parent to know but
it wasn’t easy at the same time. The doctor
warned me to stop completely the intake of
cigarette or alcohol and began a therapy with
me. I could feel a change in my system but it
was rather too slow and most times I feel I still
suffer from low sex drive despite my replacement
therapy with various testosterous. I lost my
confidence as a man I decide not to re marry.
On 21st of October 2015 I was home in my
parent house to mark my 35thbirthday with
them all when I overheard my younger brother
friend telling him how is elder brother got saved
from similar issue of quick ejaculation and that I
have suffered from for many years at this point I
was no longer shy I quickly cut in and met with
my brother in person. He gave me this website
and guaranteed me full recovery which I never
believed was possible. I eventually visited the
link www.swiffs.do.am , I visited the
site and was well accepted. I opened up
completely and was placed on some
supplements which did not take me more than
three (3) weeks to gain my natural but boosted
active self. Today I am happily married with a
beautiful daughter. I feel so indebted to Sanmi
my brother’s friend for showing me the way out.
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